Reader Question:

Hi David,

I am 60 yrs . old, extremely healthier, extremely effective, and a tremendously nice woman. I experienced a really cold wedding for over thirty years. We signed up with when I separated, had several dates (these were horrible), following one jumped upwards. I’ve outdated him don and doff for 2 years. The guy explained he really loves me, but he disappears continuously. We see him for several times, following he is eliminated for 2 to three days. He was hitched for three decades possesses three kiddies (just like me personally) and states he’s devotion issues and is watching a therapist about any of it. His partner cheated on him and then he features drug and alcohol issues.

Do I need to look at this man getting harmful? If he contacts me personally again (that I suspect he will), ought I simply tell him to not get in touch with myself any longer, or can I only let him know i love getting with him but am making my options open to go out other individuals?

-Nancy (California)

David Wygant’s Answer:

Should you consider this person toxic?  No.

I might think about him to be a booty phone call.

That is all they are.  He’s a booty call.

He does not want to devote.  He is creating plenty of excuses, but yet he wants to appear over and fool around.

Whenever men does that, all he is doing is using you as a sexual companion.

Confront him about it if you would like, but a man like him is likely to make up some type of story not to be take off sexually.

Thus move ahead and  find somebody who deserves you.

Committed you’ve been wasting thinking about him being with him is time you can be fulfilling an innovative new guy.

Take pleasure in the process!


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